Afterlife Phil G shares his mailbag to recognize contact from life after death: “I lost my father, I sense him near, but my thoughts are so mixed up I can’t actually ‘connect’ with him…” writes Lisa from the UK.
“Sensing contact with the afterlife doesn’t mean you can easily understand or believe the contact is real or clear, especially if it’s someone very close to you – you need to find a way to verify things the contact is real, and not just imagined.”
I had the same problem with my own close family, and it’s how I developed my simple technique. Firstly, if you sense him around, then he’s there. I know some would think that’s a ridiculous thing to say, but I know it’s true, and I’m sure from your question you think likewise, so I’ll assume this to be the case.
We need to move onto how to clarify things. Specifically there are a few tools I make available to help on my website on contacting the afterlife. Can I run through those first. Connecting is about being relaxed, to the point you’re not controlling your own thoughts – like a deep meditation phase where your body goes to jelly – accepting anything that comes through, and then verifying it, step by step, until it becomes easier.
On my web site on contacting the afterlife, I share many ideas to help, most of it free, including instructions, a YouTube video, and a list of books and guides to help. But the starting point is relaxing. I find it hard to get clear detail if I am busy, rushed, or thinking about too many things. So the first step is to be very relaxed, to the point of not being aware of anything else around you. Whilst I suggest my own audio guide “Contact Family in the Afterlife yourself”, any meditation will do.
In order to get clear messages or feelings is to discern the difference between the thoughts in your head, and the INCOMING thoughts. One key is to not ask for specific ’signs’, but to accept whatever comes through. Maybe you won’t get what you’re expecting, but gradually you will get things clearly, becoming easier the more you try.
The next problem of getting clear information or feelings is to separate your thoughts from those you are receiving outside of you. But I find if you’re relaxed, not trying to get any specific thoughts, and accept whatever comes through, it’s easier. You may not get what you want right now, but you’ll get things, and it gets easier.
Lastly, you want to verify what just happened is not your own thoughts, and my suggestion is to ask for something you don’t know, or something you’re forgotten. Something you don’t know can be anything. In my wife’s case, the final ‘proof’ she needed to verify I was sharing messages from her father was for me to ask if she had knocked a round cylinder containing a bunch of pens and pencils off her desk today? Something I didn’t know, and did not even know about the cylinder.
In my book I talk about my Nanna coming through (who I only knew vaguely from around the age of 7, when she passed away) showing me an image of ’scones’. I had no idea what this meant, until I heard her soft voice say “don’t you remember the scones?’ – then it came back to me. I had begged my mum to make scones like my nanna (who’s British, and they make scones completely different from Aussies!). I had totally forgotten that.
So ask those two questions, and trust whatever is brought through will make sense, and verify your connection. You see, it’s not so much as you need to know HOW to connect, but how to clarify what you’re getting, and although the steps I’ve listed do both, in your case, concentrate on those little differences between just ‘feeling he’s near’ and ‘asking for verification’.
I hope this helps you gain clarification. If you follow those steps, and talk a look at those points on the website (philg.net.au) I’m sure you’ll get the response you need to clarify and verify contact with your father in the Afterlife.
Cheers, Phil G